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Christopher MacLellan

Christopher MacLellan 

Founder & CEO

You Might Know Me As The Bow Tie Guy - "Wearing a bow tie is like wearing two smiles"

Born and raised in St. Louis, MO., I have five older siblings, 25 nieces and nephews, and over 40 great-nieces and nephews who call me the F.U...Favorite Uncle!  Now what where you thinking?

I am confident I got my 'care-gene' from my siblings who always demonstrated to me what Love, Care and Commitment is all about.

I've been wearing bow ties since my 40th birthday, so if my math is correct, I am entering my 25th year sporting the bow tie look.

An avid hockey fan of the St. Louis Blues since 1967... I still can't believe the Blues won the Stanley Cup in 2019...but I am thrilled that they did!

In a previous life before wearing bow ties, I bowled professionally on the Pro Bowlers Tour, winning three regional Professional Bowlers Associations championships and bowling 13-300 games.  In 2020, I was honored to be Elected to the St. Louis United States Bowling Congress Hall-of-Fame.

And...I love to podcast!

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Professional and Educational Background 

My Master’s Degree thesis entitled, “Spiral of Silence: Caregiving, Stress and its Impact in the Workplace” was accepted by the faculty at Gonzaga University, where I earned a Master’s degree in Leadership and Communication in 2016.

With an educational and professional background in Social Work and Theology and as a former family caregiver, I now view the issues family caregivers and their employers face through the lens of Leadership, Communication and Servant Leadership.

My passion centers around advocacy, sharing stories and connecting people to trusted resources. I am a proponent of a holistic approach to good health and spirituality.  Down to earth and pragmatic, I have always worked within a consensus-style framework, while building bridges instead of roadblocks.

Out of my personal caregiving experience, I wrote "What's The Deal with Caregiving?" a powerful and compelling book, that informs caregivers about how to deal with the challenges they will encounter, regardless of sexual orientation, family situation, or age. The book is part memoir/part how-to, as I share our stories and experiences while on our caregiving journey.

Read the reviews and purchase the book on AMAZON.

Learn more about me on LinkedIn...

Our Story - In Sickness and in Health: A Couple's Final Journey 

When people ask me "why did you create the Whole Care Network"... I always come back to our caregiving experience and how fortunate I was to find resources that helped me and my partner Richard Schiffer manage our caregiving journey.  Every caregiver has a story and through our stories, we find validation, resources and respite to help manage our caregiving day.

We were fortunate to have our story chronicled in a 2015 Pulitzer Prize-nominated 3-part story “In Sickness and In Health: A Couple’s Final Journey” which told our journey of caregiving.  The story told of the challenges LGBT partners have in dealing with the medical and legal system, but it also told of the love and joy my partner Richard's last years had on our relationship.

Our story has been read by over 500,000 people world-wide since it was published in April of 2014.  One of the reasons our story was so successful was because readers could place themselves in our shoes; dealing with the health care system, the legal system, balancing work and life, while facing the reality our time together was short.  It was an afterthought that the story just happened to be about two men.

When it comes to caregiving, there are no economic boundaries, no racial boundaries, no gender boundaries and no orientation boundaries.  Caregiving impacts everyone, and it is through story sharing where diversity meets the road to collaborate on a common cause. And our common cause is to support caregivers before, during and after caregiving has ended.

Don't just take it from me, read all three stories yourself and watch Richard and me tell our story in our own words in the video below!

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  1. In Sickness and in Health: A Couple's Final Journey
  2. Life After Death: A Couples Story Sparks Change
  3. Saying Goodbye: Navigating the Change of Moving On
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About The Purple Jacket and The  Whole Care Network  

After Richard was diagnosed with esophageal cancer, we started a blog together called "The Purple Jacket."

The Purple Jacket became a symbol of our caregiving experience, and it was a place where Richard and I could share our stories and feel comforted by the people we met along the way during our caregiving journey.

Through The Purple Jacket, we met thousands of caregivers from all over the world who felt just like we did, scared, concerned, and hopeful for a cure, yet willing to share their knowledge and resources which helps build a strong community and strong friendships. It was also during this time we coined a nickname for Richard, “TLO”…meaning "The Little One", as Richard stood a foot shorter than me!

Richard loved reading the comments from our readers and he was always thrilled when someone simply asked..."How's TLO Today!"

The Purple Jacket is also a symbol of self-care and self-compassion, two very important components of life that are often lost in the midst of caregiving.

We always signed off our blog post on The Purple Jacket by saying..."We might have cancer, but cancer never had us."  This slogan was part of the self-compassion and love we had for each other. Mindful that I was the co-pilot in this journey, we were on this roller-coaster ride together and no matter what cancer would throw at us, we were in this together as one.

After gaining over 50lbs while in the midst of caregiving, I knew once I could fit into the Purple Jacket again, I would be on the road to better health and self-care!

While I do not write on The Purple Jacket any longer, I leave the site up, just as it was during our caregiving journey, as a reminder of time well spent and good memories. You can visit The Purple Jacket here.

I've often been asked, "Why the Whole Care Network and not a name in and around caregiving?"

Creating the Whole Care Network has been my way to give back to the Caregiving community who allowed us to share our story which brought comfort and joy to both Richard and me while establishing life-long friendships through our caregiving journey.

As I've said before...' It's through story sharing where diversity meets the road to collaborate on a common cause.'  Story sharing is cathartic; story sharing breaks down walls and helps topple fear while bringing comfort, compassion, and empathy to the storyteller and story receiver. Story sharing brings people together from diverse backgrounds who learn their common goal is to simply care for their loved ones.

While I started The Whole Care Network based on my own experience as a working family caregiver and the passion gained through advocacy and collaboration before, during, and after caregiving ends; I also realized from my experience that caregiving is about caring for the caregiver, the care receiver and the care team in body, mind, and spirit.  Rather a whole care, holistic approach to caregiving.

That is precisely why the Whole Care Network is about "Whole Care" for the caregiver, care receiver, and care team; Our 4 Pillars of Care is our way to bring good health, well-being, and self-compassion to everyone who finds our stories comforting, before, during or after caregiving ends.

Caregiving is just not a local issue, it is a global issue and each one of us will need a caregiver at some point in our lives.  Yet, in most cases, caregiving is an unplanned event that finds people making critical decisions in the midst of an emergency in unfamiliar territories like health care, and the legal system.  As my loyal listeners on my Healing Ties podcast often hear me ask..."Have you met anyone who has caregiving on their bucket list of things to do in their lives?"

I've yet to meet one person who has said "YES" to my question.  That's because Caregiving is often an unplanned event that impacts all components of our daily lives that is unimaginable until you are in the midst of it.

One of the unique features of the Whole Care Network is most of our show hosts are podcasting because they have a story to share, a resource to provide, and a willingness to help others. Our goal on the Whole Care Network is to connect listeners to real-life stories and vetted resources so they can be better prepared and proactive, instead of reactive when a crisis arises.

Finally, the Whole Care Network takes me back to my first job in Social Work as the administrator of an information and referral service hotline in St. Louis, MO., where we provided critical and accurate information and referrals to people who were in an emergency or crisis. Providing accurate information and referral has been a passion of mine since I was a young social worker in St. Louis in the late 1980s.

To learn more about the Whole Care Network and how you can join as a contributor, visit our 'About' page by clicking here!

Shift Happens: From Healing Ties 2.0 to AgingGayfully™

After almost 300 episodes of "Be A Healthy Caregiver" and my "Healing Ties" podcast, 2022 has brought a shift in focus for me.  I've been privileged to be involved in the caregiving community since 2011 and I will always be connected to caregivers in one form or another.

However, there is life after caregiving and each caregiver explores their new life in their own time and at their own pace.  My time has come in 2022 to explore new destinations through travel, leisure, and adventure with my new AgingGayfully™ brand which will debut in the Summer of 2022.

Just as caregiving is a universal issue, so is Aging.  I intended to create the Aging Gayfully brand under the auspice of travel: "Travel - Adventure - Lifestyle"... via blogs, videos, podcasts, demonstrating how I am aging gayfully, and finding those on my travel adventures who are aging gayfully too.  You'll find AgingGayfully here on the Whole Care Network soon as well as a few other locations too.

And you might know my boutique travel agency has a name you might recognize...TLO Travel and Tours, Inc

Stay tuned!

I'm looking for new challenges! 

Radio/Television Commercials, Voiceovers, Content Creation, Podcast Hosting...

Let's tie this opportunity together in one big beautiful Bow Tie!

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WHAT CLIENTS SAY?

KIND WORDS FROM MY LOVELY CLIENTS

I highly recommend Christopher both as someone you want to listen to and learn from as well as someone you want to work with!"

— Sue Ryan
Inspirational speaker, motivational speaker, leadership coach.

— Lea Ann Biafora, RN, OCN- CMM, ONN-CG
CEO/Founder at Beacon Advocates.

— Deb Kelsey-Davis, RN, MHSA
Healthcare Innovator, Founder Nourish for Caregivers.

— Steven Bailey   
Age Safe® Live Well. 

— Larry Nisenson
Business Transformation Leader striving to modernize the distribution of insurance products and services

— Janis Ehlers
Award-winning marketing specialist and founder at The Ehlers Group

— Leonard Segel
Architecture Consultant at KEPHART and Preservationist with Historic Boulder.

— Amanda Singleton 
Attorney at Law, Caregiver Advocate, AARP Expert

— Amanda Singleton 
Attorney at Law, Caregiver Advocate, AARP Expert

Elliot Montgomery Sklar
Associate Professor, Department of Health Science at Nova Southeastern University
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"Capture Your Audience by Sharing Your Story Authentically and with Compassion..."

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"Voiceovers, Commercials and Testimonials available on this page are intended as examples of my work only. Please do not call any number or email any vendor indicated in these examples as availability of promotional products may be discontinued. "

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Below are some of the podcasts I've hosted or co-hosted

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